Thinking

Well I am finally done with my first year of college. That is why I haven't been on here in a while. Tonight I went to the movies with Ben it was fun we went to go see "how men think" it was really funny. But they have this one theme on the movie called the 90-day rule. Where you earn a certain respect from a guy before you are serious and wait 90 days before you sleep with him. So at first I was joking around about what he would do if I wanted to do that. He got kinda annoyed then I seriously asked him and he got all defensive about it. It kinda bothered me. Like I know we have a great sex life but I wanted to know what would really happen. It just bothers me that he gets all defensive about stuff like that. I mean most of the time I am kidding but I wanted a serious answer. Then while we were driving home he got all worked up thinking I was mad at him and I wasn't mad I just want kinda shocked. But I didn't want to get into that with him tonight it would just piss me off. Idk it just makes me wonder.... Like I know he really cares about me but is sex that important to him.... Should i have waited longer before we had sex...